Thank a Veteran

As Memorial Day approaches my family ponders if my dad will want to participate in this year's services. He is a member of the Knight's of Columbus and a veteran. He has always participated. However last year our mother died and my dad just hasn't been the same. He truly misses her. Never mind all the bickering that went on between the two of them. Even now he still talks to her. But my dad's spirit seems to be broken. He doesn't want to do much of anything. Forget the fact that his legs can no longer support him. They were both shattered by a postal truck many years ago. Although they were repaired by an amazing doctor and he has used them for as long as I can remember, they are now failing him. So is his health, but at 85 years old he has had what he calls a good life and "damn it I'm ready to go."

So we "kids" talked it over and decided that if he wants to do it then of course we will support him. After all he can be so stubborn. Just like my mother was! After all he won't be marching in a parade just doing an Honorguard at the downtown fountain square while they lay the wreaths at the Veteran's Memorial. I just don't know how long he would have to stand, but he could have his walker with him. I keep telling him there is nothing wrong with a little help...especially at his age. "Oh yeah? What do you know?"  Well a little bit. Used a walker while recovering from hip replacements. On oxygen all the time now. So I too have my cross to bear. Anyway will see.

But this Memorial Day as you are out with your family, watching the parade or enjoying a meal out. When you see a Veteran...say THANK-YOU. Let them know that you are grateful for all they have done so that you can enjoy all the freedom we have. While watching the parade stand up when they pass and shout at the top of your voice....! If your out at a restaurant and see someone in uniform, go up to them, say thank-you. Maybe you can't pay their bill but offer to pay say $1 or whatever you can. Who knows maybe others will join in. Our military personnel don't make nearly enough for what they do.

No matter what time of year it is...whenever you see a veteran,,,you should always say THANK YOU.
With out them we would be just be another third world country, not the BEST DAMN PLACE IN THE WORLD.

Stay safe and don't drink and drive or text!
Catherine